You hear people comment around you that you always seem disorganized and you can never show up to meetings on time. While those traits may be just your own personal idiosyncrasies, they may be adult ADHD signs. Below, you will find information about symptoms of adult ADHD and how they may affect your work and personal life.

What Is ADHD in Adults?

Even though ADHD (Attention-Deficit/Hyperactivity Disorder) is frequently associated with children, it may also present itself in adults in a variety of ways. Adults with ADHD may find that functioning in the day to day a challenge. Work problems, difficulties maintaining relationships, keeping appointments, and avoiding distractions are all symptoms.

ADHD is not caused by laziness, poor discipline, or lack of effort. It is a neurodevelopmental condition that is believed to involve differences in attention, impulse control, emotional regulation, and executive functioning. Genetics, brain development, early life factors, and coexisting mental health concerns may all influence how symptoms appear. In adults, symptoms often become more noticeable when work, school, parenting, relationships, or daily responsibilities become harder to manage.

Diagnosis of ADHD in adults is generally related to the presence of symptoms while the adults were children. This complicates the diagnosis as childhood reports of behaviour are relied upon. Once a diagnosis is confirmed in an adult, there are treatments available that are commonly medications or psychotherapy that focus on behavioural and cognitive behavioural therapy.

Core ADHD Symptoms in Adults

When checking for symptoms in ADHD in adults, the behaviours that may lead to a diagnosis include ones that are continuous and compromise day to day functions at home or work. Those behaviours include recurring inattention, hyperactivity, and impulsiveness.

  • Inattention – Persistent inattention, a common sign of ADHD, shows itself in several discernible behaviours.
  • Disorganization – This relates to difficulty keeping home or work organized as well as struggling to plan or prioritize. 
  • Time Management Issues – This involves continual acts of lateness and an inability to estimating time needed for work. 
  • Distractibility – The symptom implies that the person loses focus easily, and has trouble paying attention or listening. 
  • Hyperactivity – Hyperactivity involves more than exhibiting energy driven activity.
  • Fidgeting – This behavioural symptom of ADHD includes feelings of restlessness, foot tapping, and a general inability to sit still. 
  • Hyperfocus – Almost counter-intuitively, this connects with an inability to take focus off tasks that are intriguing.
  • Inner Restlessness – Adults with ADHD report feeling like they were driven by an internal and uncontrollable need to move or fidget. 
  • Impulsiveness – Acting on urges or thoughts without pausing to consider the consequences.
  • Emotional Inconsistency – An adult with ADHD may show themselves to have a quick temper and/or low frustration thresholds.
  • Impatience – This is displayed in difficulties waiting for a chance to speak or to wait in lines.
  • Impulsive Decisions – Spontaneously making life-altering decisions such as quitting jobs or making large purchases are indicators of impulsivity.

Emotional & Less Discussed Symptoms

Beyond the main three symptoms listed above, there are also less discussed symptoms that can be acute yet muted. These include emotional and cognitive symptoms, such as:

  • Emotional Symptoms
  • Bursts of Emotions – This describes sudden bursts of fierce emotion that seem to come out of nowhere.
  • Rejection Sensitive Dysphoria (RSD) – This is a deep emotional pain brought on not by reality of rejection or criticism but by the perception of rejection.
  • Persistent Shame / Guilt – This is the constant feeling of being less than others usually stemming from years of voiced disapproval.
  • Less Discussed Symptoms
  • Hyperfocus – This is focus on a task that almost reaches the point of obsession. This causes losing track of time or ignoring sleeping or eating.
  • Time Blindness – This is an inability or struggle to judge how much time has gone by or a persistent lateness.
  • Alexithymia – This is a person’s effort to describe or recognize their own emotions. Often, all emotions they describe are listed under a single unclear term, such as anxiety.
  • Executive Dysfunction Paralysis – This is when a person freezes when they become overwhelmed by stimuli. Even if a person is motivated to act, they find it virtually impossible to begin.

ADHD Symptoms in Women vs Men

As with other aspects of life, the symptoms of ADHD present themselves differently in the different genders. They can be attributed to, in part, to expectations of society as well as biological factors, and some of the symptoms of adult ADHD present themselves more in one gender than in the other. Some of the ways that men and women differ in their presentation of symptoms include:

Type of Symptom

Men

Women

Physical Restlessness/Constant Activity

Disruptive Behaviour/Aggression

Excessive Daydreaming

Emotional Dysregulation

Risk Taking

Inattention

Internalized Behaviours

Externalized Behaviours

Social/Emotional Impacts

When it has come to diagnosing adult ADHD, it has historically been biased toward the identification of ADHD in males. This has primarily been due to the fact that symptoms in males manifest themselves in outward, external behaviours such as hyperactivity or behaviour difficulties. This bias stems from the symptoms in men are easier to observe as they are often external. Women’s symptoms are often more difficult to identify as they exhibit more internal symptoms, such as inattention, that can easily be missed.

How ADHD Affects Daily Life

In both men and women, ADHD can cause powerful impacts on day-to-day living. Adults living with ADHD continually struggle with impulsive behaviour, missed deadlines, unstable finances, difficulty with relationships, and emotional management.

  • Work/Productivity – Problems with prioritizing, paying attention, and multitasking cause work to suffer resulting in career instability.
  • Daily Routines – Time blindness, forgetfulness, and a general disorganization can lead to undue stress in those who are afflicted.
  • Relationships – Sudden emotional flare-ups or impulsively acting can put pressures on relationships with friends and family.
  • Physical Health – Increased instances of sleep problems and unhealthy eating behaviours or lifestyle practices are often connected to adults dealing with ADHD.
  • Finances – A combination of impulsivity control, casual shopping, and poor organizational skills can lead to debt that can be stressful and difficult to get out from under.
  • Unregulated Emotions – Feelings of frustration, restiveness, or boredom become hard to shake and can affect daily routines.
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Signs You May Have Undiagnosed ADHD

It is more difficult to complete a late diagnosis of ADHD, but there are signs that you may look for in yourself or someone close to you. While it is not conclusive and should be taken as way to determine undiagnosed ADHD in adults, it can be helpful as a way to assist someone to professionals who can determine a diagnosis.

Some of the adult ADHD signs are:

Type of Symptom

Cognitive and Organizational Signs

Focus and Motivation Obstacles

mood swings

forgetfulness

easily distracted

always in motion

inability to follow through

avoiding tasks

being ‘wired’ or jumpy

weak organizational skills

procrastination

easily irritated

always running late

trouble keeping focus

makes hasty decisions

difficulty to adapt

lack of motivation

over the top responses

often mentally exhausted

little conversational focus

risky behaviour

losing or misplacing items

losing interest quickly

inability to wait your turn

trouble prioritizing tasks

boredom with repetitive tasks

inability to sit still

difficulty multitasking

trouble switching between tasks

quick to anger

poor working memory

low frustration tolerance

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When to Seek Professional Help

While symptoms typically need to be present in a person earlier than 12 years of age, adults often seek help with the possibility of adult onset ADHD when stress, responsibilities, or changes in life make it hard to cope. There are key signs that indicate that you should seek professional help.

  • Feelings of being constantly overwhelmed
  • Relationships under pressure
  • Continual work/school difficulties
  • Problems regulating emotions
  • Continual disorganization
  • Issues with memory
  • Inability to continue to cope

While self-identifying with several of these symptoms does not indicate that you or someone close to you may have adult ADHD, it may be worthwhile to connect with professionals who are able to make an adult ADHD diagnosis.

Final Thoughts

Comments that come from others at work about your forgetfulness and inability to focus can be difficult to hear. However, just discounting those statements as office chatter may not be your wisest course of action.

It is never easy to admit that you may need help. It can also be just as difficult to reach out and ask for help. The professionals at Positive Mind Wellness are dedicated to making our clients’ quality of life better. Contact us today to book an appointment for adult ADHD testing. We want you to do well and get the most enjoyment out of life.

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